WOMEN'S AND THEIR SACRIFICES IN OUR SOCIETY
Where do women stand in our society? Some people have personified women as a sacrifice. The second name of sacrifice is women. Why women don’t have their own personal identity? Why women are not treated as humans? Society always forgets that without women there would not have been men. Women are a sexual object for men, she is an object to lend out their frustration, she is an absolute thing to beat and take out the frustration. Why always women are dominated? I feel women are suppressed in the society merely because men know this better if they let women compete them they’ll always loose and men can not let this happen because it hurts their manly ego. But nowadays women are in every field to compete with men. In fact, women are doing better than men. But still, in some parts of India women are treated in a very cruel manner. They feel that women should be educated minimal because men cannot learn much and so the women should be less educated so that a man could be higher in its education than men, this is also a thought in India. Some people don’t educate women because they think education is only for those people who need a job. But that’s not the truth. Men are always frightened that if women do best that the men then their manly ego will be hurt. Yes, women are physically weak, it does not mean that men will use women as their sexual object. Women are very strong and if once women are determined about something then no one can stop her to do that. Without women, men cannot live their life, but still, some men treat women as their personal stuff which is a non-living object. They want women to work as a robot so that they can make them do whatever they want. Men have to understand that even women is a human being and she cannot be treated like that. Even women have the same body, soul, heart as that of men. Even women deserve the same respect and have the right to live with dignity as of men. One fine day men have to understand this thing. Why we write articles on women safety, security, her position? Why do we conduct awareness programs? Why do we hold campaigns? Why our Indian law safeguards women more than men? Just because men have forced our legal system and our society to feel that women are unsafe in the society, women will be treated as a sexual object in the society and because of such threats, a life of women remains in between four walls of the house due to their parental concern. For instance; why women’s are not allowed to walk in the streets after 10.00p.m in the night? You all really think because women are afraid of the darkness? Is that really so? No, because their parents feel it's not safe for women to roam about. Why our respect Prime Minister has started this scheme “Beti Bachao Beti Padho “ just because there are still some people in our society who wants to kill a female child when she is her mother’s abdomen, because these people feel that first, we have to educate the daughter, then we have to make her to wed and then pay for her marriage as well and in return she gives nothing. Many people don’t let girls educate they don’t allow them to follow their dreams, they just want that women stay in the four walls of the house and then they just be a robot for their parental family and martial family as well. Why women are felt as a burden? Why women are treated as a liability? Why they are sexually harassed? Why women’s are not granted their freedom to choose their lifestyle? Why women’s are compelled to live their life in the way society wants? Women are also being told characterless only on the basis of their clothes. Why are women being judged merely on their dressing style? Why men’s are not judged on the way they clothing? Why men's are not compelled to live a life in the way, society wants? Why all the restrictions are always imposed on women’s? Why not men? There is always a question there why only women, why not men? And I feel one fine day when the society will feel this thing then the society, especially men will be ashamed of themselves. And I am really waiting for that one fine day. I believe one day the society will surely feel about this. In our society, some women are against women’s liberty and right to live with dignity. Few women things the things are drafted in such a way and it should be followed in that manner only. So women are women’s enemy. I feel we have to form a slogan similar to “Save trees”, we should draft this slogan for women as “Save women”. I personally feel this and I don’t think that day is far from us when we have to draft this slogan very soon. I’m not expecting the society to be feminist and do wrong with the men, but still, they should treat women equally as of men or treat men as of women, which I don’t think it’s possible. Because no men would accept that he is not treated as a human. So “BEING EQUAL” is the best thing to do. There should be a balance between both men and women in society.